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Irish Dancing

2009-03-10T17:39:00.001-05:00

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One more...Just the "girls"

2008-12-23T15:40:00.001-05:00

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2008-12-23T12:58:00.002-05:00

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"Who would've known" for the Week

2008-11-05T06:25:00.001-05:00

Who would've known that those poll monitors would get so upset when I simply showed up to vote. Who cares that I was still in my Halloween costume, and who cares that I dressed up as Obama dressed as Brittney Spears dressed as Tiny Faye impersonating Sarah Palin. Other than my hairy legs sticking out from under a very short, plaid skirt, my costume was nothing but tasteful.

"Who would've known" for the Week

2008-11-01T09:00:00.001-05:00

Who would've known that those trick-or-treaters would be so ungrateful after receiving my thoughtful Halloween gift? You know, Richard Simmons' Deal-O-Meals are not easy to come by, nor are they cheap. Listen up you chubby, little brats: After your Bat-Man underoos don't fit from eating all those King-Sized Snickers bars, you'll thank me. Just wait until next year when I hand out Slim-Fast shake packets!

Favorite Day

2008-10-28T05:00:00.007-05:00

Exactly 14 years from today marks my favorite day in the history of my life. 14 years ago I went on my very first date with the love of my life. However, the first-date itself is not exactly why it's my favorite day. Let's just say that it serves as a key reminder to me that God is in control, and His will shall reign over my suaveness...and lack there of. Let me set the stage...

It was a Friday evening and I was getting ready for the big night out. I had taken a shower, slapped on some expensive cologne (okay so it was a dab of English Leather), and styled my hair...which basically involved plastering it to my head with a whole bunch of gel. Having freshened up, it was time to get dressed, and knowing how important it was to impress this beautiful girl, I put on my best: My black jean-shorts, my black and white Pumas, and my best No Fear t-shirt (you know the one: "Give Blood...Play Hockey. No Fear!!!"). Don't I know how to impress the ladies?

Looking good and ready for some fun, I set out for the big date...just one catch. Me being a freshman in high school, and this being my first real date, my parents would only let me go if a friend came a long. So here enters Paul. Oh, and did I forget to mention that she had to pick us up since neither Paul or I could drive yet? No biggie.

Lizz picked us up at my house and we set off. We went to a movie (The River Wild), and in all honesty, the night went well. Nothing really eventful happened, but on the flip side.... nothing really eventful happened. As a matter of fact, I think I said a total of five words to her including "hi" and "goodnight." The fact that she went out with me again, let alone married me, is amazing in itself.

I often look back on that evening and realize that a lot of things could've happened after that date. But one thing that did happen, I fell in love...and after 14 years, I'm still falling. Every day of my life I thank God for His providence. I also thank Him for the precious gift that he has given to me in my wife; my bride; my best friend; my heart and my life. Though our first date wasn't eventful, our marriage sure has been. We've lived in a variety of places, met a ton of people, became parents to two beautiful children, and through it all we've loved one another. Never perfectly, not always easily, but by the grace of God, continually. And just like a good wine, it gets better with time. With that said...Salut!

Bella,
Il vostra amore è migliore del vino.

To My New Best Friend...Whose Name I Don't Know

2008-10-26T12:50:00.007-05:00

I just wanted to send out a big "thank you" to the wonderfully, compassionate shuttle-bus driver who jump-started my car yesterday at the Dayton Airport at 1.30 in the morning. I was so frazzled, tired, and self-absorbed that I didn't even catch your name, but I'm extremely grateful nonetheless. Although I may not know your name I'll never forget your face, and if I ever see you again I'm giving you a huge hug. At least I hope I'll never forget your face, or else that hug will be even more awkward.

"Who would've known" for the Week

2008-10-24T17:40:00.000-05:00

Who would've known that the guy next to me on the plane would get so upset after I gave him my peanuts? So what if I forget to mention that I had already sucked off all the salt and pre-chewed a few. We're living in some pretty tough economic times right now, so when you get a handout like that, you accept it and say, "thank you"!

"Who would've known" for the Week

2008-10-17T09:00:00.000-05:00

Who would've known that someone would get so upset when asked to dance to an awesome song? I mean, so what if it was in the men's locker room and I only had a small gym towel wrapped around my waist. You just don't turn down "Endless Love" like that. Have a heart people!

The Glorious Flight

2008-10-16T05:21:00.005-05:00

This week's 5-In-A-Row lesson focuses on the book The Glorious Flight, which is about Louis Bleriot, who was the first person to fly over the English Channel. One of the activities this week was to make a model plane to help explain the different parts of the plane. Lizz made the model out of cardboard from empty boxes, and I have to say that it's quite impressive. Below is a video of Colin identifying the different parts of the plane.

Dennis Mele For President!

2008-10-15T07:36:00.004-05:00

Great news, Dad! I'm really proud of you. You have my vote!!!

Click on the picture below to view the full news coverage...

Google 411

2008-10-11T10:59:00.002-05:00

Here's another great tool from Google. It's basically a free 411 service. Very cool, especially when you're traveling in an area you're not very familiar with.

She's Growing Up...

2008-10-07T18:45:00.004-05:00

Anna has recently graduated from the crib to a big-girl bed. She was extreeeemely excited about it too; especially with a nice purple pillow on top. So far so good: no escapes or freak-outs.

Well Cubs Fans...

2008-10-05T08:07:00.001-05:00

There's always next year...

Don't Give Up Hope!

2008-10-02T07:44:00.006-05:00

Calling all Cubbies fans!!! Last night was a horrible night and it dredged up some bad memories, but let's not give up hope. Our Cubs are still in it and still strong. So, bust out your rally caps, pull out your jerseys, rub your rabbits feet, stop shaving, keep wearing the same underwear, suck on your big toes (okay I made that one up...I was on a roll). Do what you gotta do, but don't stop cheering! Below is a Link to a great video to get you psyched...

Cubs Fans Unite!

I've Been Converted

2008-09-28T13:43:00.003-05:00

It's official. I am no longer...a boxer wearer. After 10 years of enjoying the comfort that boxers bring, I've decided that the support of briefs is more important to me. Believe me, this wasn't an easy decision, but after a few too many "incidents" while exercising, it was clear that a change was necessary. I'm sure that this information is extremely important to you, so I've decided to include a picture as well.

Oh yeah...I've been working out...

Family Bowling Night

2008-09-27T16:37:00.004-05:00

Well, Colin and Anna just got done bowling for their first time. We found an alley just a few minutes from home and by the time we were into our 7th frame we had the place to ourselves (which was good because Anna was doing quite a bit of exploring). Colin bowled a 70...with bumpers of course. Anna bowled a 76...with the help of Mom of course. And Lizz bowled a 136. I don't remember what I bowled....I wasn't really keeping score. Anyway, I think Anna had more fun with the air blower than bowling, but that's just fine. It's about the whole experience. Or at least that's what I kept telling myself after I got my you-know-what handed to me by my wife. I think I may have to schedule a rematch.

Mushi Mushi!

2008-09-27T12:53:00.003-05:00

Earlier this month Lizz began a homeschooling curriculum with Colin called called Five In A Row. The nice thing about this curriculum is that you can make it as easy or as complicated as you'd like, and since were still testing the homeschooling waters, we're keeping things fairly light. The idea of Five In A Row is that you focus on one book a week (five days in a row...get it?), and they give you a variety of actives related to the book. Well, this weeks book was A Pair of Red Clogs, which takes place in Japan, so this weeks activities included learning about Mount Fuji, drawing the Japanese flag and wearing traditional kimonos, as seen to the left (OK...so they're big t-shirts cut down the middle and tied with scrap cloth...they got the idea). In addition, the kids got to try sushi (California Rolls), which didn't go over real well. Colin told Lizz, "I really wanted to like it, I just didn't." I give him an A for effort.

Back Up and Running

2008-09-16T19:09:00.002-05:00

Well, the last few days have been interesting to say the least. On Sunday afternoon Hurricane Ike decided to send a breath of wild air our way. In addition to ripping shingles and siding off of houses, and knocking down quite a few trees, Ike took out power from East Indiana to Dayton, OH and down to Northern KY. As a matter of fact our local power company reported on Monday that 588,000 customers had lost power.

We fared the storm quite well, aside from losing a few tree limbs and a small piece of siding. We were without power from 12.30PM on Sunday until about 2.00PM today, which was a bit challenging. However, after looking at pictures and reading about the devastation the hurricane caused down in Texas, I feel pretty ashamed for even feeling sorry for myself.

Having lived in Florida for over 10 years I never thought I'd see a "hurricane" make it's way up to Southern OH.

Camera Fun

2008-09-13T07:35:00.005-05:00

Thanks to my Dad and his plethora of America Express points, the Mele Family has a new toy: A Canon DC320 Camcorder. It's one of those nifty camcorders where you can record directly to a mini DVD. Below is one of our first takes:

The Emotional Christian

2007-11-30T16:42:00.000-05:00

Last Sunday at church our worship team played a song titled, “The Blarney Pilgrim,” which is a wonderful hymn put to an Irish tune (this hymn is also known as “I Heard the Voice of Jesus Say”). At the end of the song, the band continued to play for about a minute or two (i.e. no words just jam), and I for one thought it was great. Not only did it sound good, but it also had that festive feel to it that makes you want to dance. As a matter of fact, hand clapping and hip swaying did occur, which is saying a lot for a Presbyterian church. However, as I surveyed the room I quickly noticed that there were a significant number of people who seemed a little uncomfortable. Some people had that nervous smile on, which usually translates to, “I reaaaaally hope we stop this nonsense before Jesus comes back, and strikes us down,” while others simply looked peeved. Though I don’t believe I have the right to say which is right or wrong (i.e. different people deal with their emotions in a variety of ways), it did get me thinking about how the church deals with emotions in its worship, as well as in its teaching.

Though I would consider myself to be a strong opponent of making worship into a dramatic presentation or show, I don’t think it should be void of emotion. I would even go as far to say that, at times, it can be appropriate to include elements in our worship that may provoke emotions. I believe where the problem occurs is when the primary goal of the worship service is to provide an emotional experience, especially when it results in compromising the truth. Unfortunately, what many churches do to avoid this is go to the opposite extreme in order to prevent any creep of emotion into the worship. I find this to be quite sad, as I think something is lost here. I believe that one negative consequence of this is the creation of Christians who are either ignorant of their emotions, or simply don’t know how to deal with their emotions. In turn, this can cause irrational behavior on one side, and indifference on the other. I think that by understanding how and why we experience different emotions, especially in response to the truth, we can learn a lot about the penchants of our heart. I don’t mean to sound all “Orpahy” here, but it’s true. When we become defensive or upset upon hearing the truth, there’s a good chance that something exists in our life or our heart that shouldn’t be there, or at least needs a readjustment. On the flipside, experiencing joy upon hearing the truth can serve as a good indicator that we are in line with it, and can better respond in thanksgiving to God.

I recognize that at times the proper mood of our worship should be somber and calm, but I also believe it can be boisterous and joyful. Finally, though I know that we’re never going to get this 100% right in this life, I look forward to the day when, having been completely stripped of our pride, we are free to dance, sing, and cry out to our King who has set us free, without hesitation, and without regret.

Giving Thanks In Michigan

2007-11-24T15:05:00.000-05:00

We just got back from a wonderful Thanksgiving weekend with family in Michigan. Though we're tired, we had an excellent time. The kids traveled really well, and they had a blast with their cousins. We stayed with my Aunt Gina and Uncle Don, who have to be near the top of the "Sweetest and Most Loving People In the World List." We had our Thanksgiving meal at my cousin Debbie's place, and the combination of delicious fare and wonderful fellowship made the evening unforgettable. It was great seeing my cousins who I hadn't seen in over 7 years, and a couple of them I hadn't even met before then! Lizz and I are so grateful we had the opportunity to give thanks with them this year, and are very excited that they are only a few hours away...let this be a warning to you Michiganders :).

I've uploaded a slew of pictures and videos which can be viewed by clicking on the links to the right.

Back in the Kettle

2007-11-20T14:46:00.000-05:00

Well, after about a year of leave from brewing, I’m back at it. As a matter of fact, within a week I’ve joined the AHA (American Homebrewers’s Association) and a local Homebrewer’s club (Bloatarian Brewing League), as well as started my very own batch. As I type, a 5 gallon batch of American Pale Ale is fermenting in my basement, which I’ve affectionately named: Blind Griffin Pale Ale. Hopefully it’ll turn out okay.

Skoal!

Tis The Season To Drink Grappa

2007-11-14T15:04:00.000-05:00

For those of you who may be in the market for a good “winter warmer,” I highly recommend grappa, which has become a new favorite of mine. I’ve been hunting for it for quite some time, and I've just recently found it at the best store in greater Cincinnati (Jungle Jim’s).

Grappa (which means “grape stalk” in Italian) is a type of brandy made from pomace, which is basically the “leftovers” found in a wine press (from this I conclude that wine makers are excellent stewards of God’s wonderful gifts). Similar to most liquors, grappa can be served in a variety of fashions including as a nice companion to a good cigar, or simply as an elegant digestif after a hearty meal (hint hint for you Thanksgiving gluttons).

Salut!

Synod Van Dordrecht

2007-11-13T06:30:00.000-05:00

On the wall above my home computer is a framed sketch of the Synod of Dort (similar to the one posted here). This particular synod was assembled by the Dutch Reformed Church exactly 389 years from today, with the purpose of addressing the spread of Arminianism (which, by the way, the church concluded was a heretical perversion of the Gospel of Christ). By far, this sketch is the geekiest item I own, although my John Calvin bobblehead does come in a close second. The comments that I receive regarding this sketch range from: “This is interesting….,” to: “What is this about?” However, the question I always dread is: “So why did you buy this?” I’m never quite sure how to respond. Do I go into a long account explaining what the Synod of Dort was and why it’s so important to me, or do I simply say that I was looking for a nice black-and-white for the office, and this one appealed to my tastes? In light of the Synod’s anniversary, I figured I’d take this opportunity to state the main reasons for making this purchase.

First off, I believe this sketch is an excellent representation of one of the many ways God has preserved His Holy Word throughout history. Beginning with the prophets, we have Scriptural records that document how Satan has placed false teachers among God’s people to distract them from the Gospel of Christ. With that said, I find it sad, not to mention dangerous, that we as the Church don’t pay more attention to the issues our ancestors faced. It amazes me how quickly we fall victim to the same heresies again and again. There’s not much that the church has not already dealt with, even though it may be called by a different name.

Second, I find this sketch to be very comforting as it depicts a group of church leaders who do not take false teaching lightly, and are literally engaged with upholding the truth of the Gospel. Although spending months and years discussing whether or not something is Biblically sound may seem frivolous to some, I for one am extremely grateful for church counsels.

Finally, when I look at this sketch I accept it as a charge. I believe that it is our responsibility, today and always, to seek to understand the truth revealed in God’s word, and to uphold this truth at all costs just as our ancestors did for us, by the grace, strength and wisdom of our Lord.

An Illiterate College Grad

2007-11-12T06:43:00.000-05:00

Over the past couple of months I've been listening to a lecture series entitled, "God and His Word," by Dr. Micahael Williams of Covenant Theological Seminary (God and His Word). In one of his lectures, Dr. Williams mentions how many young generations today have lost the skill of reading, and how many colleges are graduating illiterate students. Now, being the prideful person I am, I immediately took offense, and categorized Dr. Williams as an old coot who's always complaining about today's "whipper snappers," and how we’ve gone astray. However, as I continued to listen to Dr. Williams, his criticism pierced through my pride and brought me to the realization that the person he was describing was me. Now, I don't want to discount my education nor my ability to read. I believe I’ve been taught and equipped with what I need to be an effective reader. Conversely, there's no doubt I’ve become a lazy reader.

One of Dr. Williams' points was how many people read as if they’re watching TV: as unengaged observers. Snap! Boy, did that hit home. Sure, I can easily put letters together to from words, but I’ve neglected to engage. I don't ask questions. I don't seek to understand the position of the writer or the context of the writing.

Now, this is probably a skill I should have signed up to in elementary school, yet since then I've become irresponsible in my reading. Nevertheless, since receiving Dr. William's chastisement I've made more of a conscious effort to engage in my reading. I can't say it's been easy since it's not yet a habit, but it's definitely rewarding. Not only has my understanding increased, but it has also renewed my joy of reading.

2007-11-01T20:10:00.000-05:00

Latest Happenings

2007-09-23T14:00:00.000-05:00

Good Morning Big Brother!

Colin @ Oktoberfest

Daddy's Lil' Girl

Happy Birthday Anna!

2007-08-25T19:20:00.000-05:00

DIY Comics

2007-08-25T12:40:00.000-05:00

This is great! There's a website called Strip Generator (www.stripgenerator.com), which allows you to create and manage your very own comic strip on-line. Great fun! Below is a link to a sample:

Super Zero

Yes, I'm a dork...but this is really cool!

2007-08-23T07:38:00.000-05:00

I recently purchased a computer program called Starry Night, which allows you to enter in your location (by closest major city), and it shows you the things that you "should" be able to see, realtime, "from your own backyard." It's amazing! Not only can you get a good idea of what's up above your house, but, via the Hubble, the software allows you to zoom extremely close to differnt objects (to the point where you can practically kiss the craters on the moon). In addition, it allows you to capture and export images of the different things you see. Below is a short strip of the few items I was exploring last night and this morning.

Summer Fun

2007-08-20T18:25:00.000-05:00

She's Walking!

2007-08-08T18:40:00.000-05:00

New Vids

2007-05-18T18:37:00.000-05:00

Silly Time with Mom...

Very Expressive Baby...

She's On The Move!

2007-05-05T11:36:00.001-05:00

Happy Birthday Colin

2007-02-27T19:53:00.000-05:00

Colin turned 3 today!

Always New

2007-02-21T06:40:00.000-05:00

Have you ever been to a buffet where you inhaled so much wonderful food that you had trouble remembering exactly what you ate? In a weird way that's how I felt earlier this month when I attended the Ohio Valley Presbytery Men's' retreat. In less than two days I had listened to 5 hours worth of preaching/teaching by the following, wonderful men of God: Bryan Chapel, Zach Eswine, Dennis Hack, and John Sartelle. Even though it's been a few weeks since the retreat, I'm still digesting everything I heard. As a matter of fact, the presbytery recently uploaded the sessions to their website, and I'm currently go through them again. Over the next few weeks I intend to write a little more on what I've learned from these teachings. However, one thing that did become extremely clear to me at the conference was that when the Gospel of Christ is properly preached (and/or read), it is always new. Too often I come to the Word of God hoping that I will discover something new and exciting; something I've never read or thought about before; something that will spark an idea in my head that will initiate a solution to a problem. Unfortunately when I do this I often walk away from the Bible feeling unsatisfied. What these speakers at the retreat taught me (not necessarily intentionally), was that no matter how many times the Gospel is preached and heard, it is always refreshing to our souls. The Gospel of Christ is more than food for thought, it's a feast for the soul, and no matter how often we hear it, it is always new. Never stale or bland the, Gospel of Christ is to the soul as a king's feast is to a weary Pilgrim; refreshing and effectual.

May the Gospel of Christ nourish your soul and bring you nigh to God; today, tomorrow and forevermore.

Colin's Penmanship

2007-02-20T06:01:00.000-05:00

Below is Colin's first attempt at writing his name. Not too shabby...

Anna Chuckles

2007-02-12T06:05:00.000-05:00

I admit that this is unnecessarily long, but I just love baby laughs:

More Than A Tradition

2007-02-11T12:30:00.000-05:00

Today my wife and I celebrated the baptism of our our daughter, Anna Elizabeth; an event I've been yearning for ever since her first breaths. Watching the pastor sprinkle water on her little head and pray for her, reminded Lizz and I of the wonderful love of our God, and the hope we have in the promises of His Son.

Although baptism is a tradition in the Christian church, it is not rooted in tradition but in the very Word of God, and although it is an outward sign, a spiritual element is involved as well. The Westminster Confession of Faith describes baptism as "a sacrament of the New Testament, ordained by Jesus Christ, not only for the solemn admission of the party baptized in to the visible Church; but also, to be unto him a sign and seal of the covenant of grace." Much more than a symbol, baptism is a sacrament ordained by Christ himself:

"Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptising then in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit..." - Matt 28.19

Unfortunately, baptism is too often viewed as a sign of an individual's commitment to live a Holy life, versus a sign of the commitment of God to save and care for His children.

In regards to why Lizz and I have decided to baptize our children as infants, our convictions (once again) don't rest in tradition but in the Bible. First of all, we don't believe that the child is regenerated during baptism. In other words, we don't believe that baptism makes the child a Christian. Instead, we believe that baptism serves as an outward sign of the individual entering into the covenant community (i.e. visible Church).

In addition, we believe that there exists a strong link between the Old Testament sacrament of circumcision and the New Testament sacrament of baptism. As a matter of fact, we believe that baptism fulfills the sacrament of circumcision. As believing parents were instructed to have their sons circumcised in the Old Testament, believers are now called to baptize their children. In fact, there are several instances in the New Testament where all members of a believer's household are baptized (Acts 16.15, Act 16.33, 1Cor 1.16).

Finally, although baptism is, in part, a dedication, the basis of this dedication rests not in the ability of the parents, but in the promises of God. Although it is our responsibility to raise Colin and Anna "in the discipline and instruction of the Lord" (Eph 6.4), we realize that their salvation rests not in our dedicated effort, but in the love of our gracious Savior. This is where our hope lies, and this is what we are reminded of every time we witness a baptism.

Below is a clip of Anna being baptised. Before playing it, make sure your volume is turned up (high), and get comfy...it's a long 'un but a good 'un.

Monday Morning Musings: The Blessing of a Broken Heart

2007-01-29T05:56:00.000-05:00

Below are the lyrics to one of my favorite songs. I'm very grateful that I have this on MP3, for I'm certain that a tape would be well worn, and a CD would be in scratches by now.

I Want A Broken Heart
words and music by Derek Webb

I’ve got faith in the bank and money in my heart

I’ve got a calloused place where your ring used to be, my love
I’ve traded naked and unashamed for a better place to hide

for a righteous mask, a suit of fig leaves and lies

I thought the cattle on a thousand hills was not enough to pay my bills and I fell in love with those who proved me wrong, and now I want a broken heart

Now there’s a great pad lock on the place where I was free, and I’m feeling bad from swallowing that key
Now I work real hard but I mostly call in sick of a broken back from the ground fighting back at me

I cannot look you in the eye so I check the knots on my disguise ‘cause I fell in love with fashion in the dark and now I want a broken heart

I’ve got alibis for every crime a substitute to do my time ‘cause Your heart breaks enough on both our parts so now I want a broken heart

now I want a broken heart

Every time this song queues up on my player, I end up listening to it at least three times in a row. It's one of those songs I find to be simultaneously convicting and soothing. As I listen to the words, I'm reminded of how easy it is to worship the blessings I've received over the Giver of those blessings; how I've become infatuated with this world and work so hard to justify my greed; how quickly I forget the life and sacrifice which freed me from the bondages of sin and made me righteous. I'm so thankful for artists like Derek Webb who can so brilliantly put the truths of the Gospel into a beautiful song.

May the Lord continue to graciously chisel away the barnacles of sin from our calloused hearts, and pour in His holiness and love, conforming us more and more each day to His Son.

Anna's First Tooth

2007-01-28T12:47:00.000-05:00

Well, teething has officially begun. A few days ago, Lizz noticed a tiny tooth popping up in the bottom of Anna's mouth. It'll just be a matter of time before she doesn't have to gum her peas and carrots anymore. I was unsuccessful at getting a picture of the intruder, so I decided to take one of Anna in her new hat...she has such great fashion sense, don't you think?

This Day In History (minus a week): Hampton Court Conference

2007-01-25T07:05:00.000-05:00

In response to a document, know as the Millenary Petition, which was drafted by English Puritans and was an attempt at reforming the Church of England, King James I of England initiated the Hampton Court Conference (named for the location where it convened : the Hampton Court Palace). Convening in January of 1604, the conference consisted of three main meetings:

First Meeting: Basically involved James and his bishops hashing out the issues identified in the Millenary Petition.

Second Meeting: Served as an opportunity for the puritan representatives to voice their concerns to the King.

Third Meeting: Concluding the conference, the King made his final decisions in regards to what changes would or wouldn't be made.

Although many of the items in the Millenary Petition were rejected, one of the most significant and memorable consequences of the Hampton Court Conference was the decision to make a new translation of the Holy Scriptures into the English language. This version was published in 1611 and is known today as the King James Version.

May we all treasure the word of God, and seek to better understand His reveled will contained within, and may we find great comfort in knowing that His word has and will always be preserved.

"For assuredly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, one jot or one tittle will by no means pass from the law till all is fulfilled." -Matt 5:18

Snow Day: Pt II

2007-01-21T19:59:00.000-05:00

We had a blast! The weather was perfect: the temp was in the 40s and there was no wind. As a matter of fact, we had so much fun we ended up spending two hours playing, and we probably would've stayed out longer if we don't have to go in for dinner. Below are some snippets of our adventures:

Before we went out we made sure we were wearing the proper attire...

We decided to kick things off with a little snowball fight...we even made a mini bunker...

Then we made a snow man...his name is Wally...

And of course, we went sledding...dad started things off to make sure the hill was safe...

Then Colin and dad went for a ride...

What a great day!

Snow Day!

2007-01-21T09:46:00.000-05:00

Wahoo! We finally received a "real" snow fall. The weather guy predicts at least a good 4 inches. I luuuuuuuv the snow! I even love driving in it (yes, I'm a freak). I find that snow forces me to slowdown and enjoy the beauty of creation (not just when I'm driving but also regarding life in general) . Below is a brief clip of our backyard being saturated with the gorgeous white fluff from heaven. Assuming that we get a chance to go out and play later this afternoon, I intend to take more vids/pics, so please stay tuned.

New Initiative

2007-01-20T15:42:00.000-05:00

Being the sucker that I am, I recently let a friend from work talk me into playing lacrosse with him (a sport that I have little to no real experience with). Since the beginning of the year we've been spending most of our lunch breaks "playing catch", which I've found to be very valuable since my ability to catch and throw with a lax stick needs much improvement. As time (and my confidence) progressed, my buddy decided I was ready for some real experience. Before I knew it, I was out on the field with guys who have been playing since their parents exchanged their rattles with lax sticks. The good news was that I played in a pick-up game versus an actually league, so the intensity was not as high as it could've been. Aside from being quite tired (the game went from 10:30-11:30 PM!) and soar the next morning, I thoroughly enjoyed myself and look forward to the next game.

Besides some quirky rules I found the game play to be somewhat similar to hockey without skates (which bodes well with me since I was never a particularly great skater). One similarity to hockey is that your allowed to "check" your opponent (i.e. slam into them with you body). However, unlike hockey your also allowed to hit your opponent with your stick, which makes the game that much more enjoyable and exciting. Below is a picture of my fix lax war wound: a pretty bruise resulting from a stick check I received on my right arm (this is how guys help educate each other...words are a waste of time...beatings are much more effectual).

Just thought I'd share. Anyway, through this recent initiative I've been reminded how exciting trying new things can be. Hopefully I'll make it through this one alive so I can try others...

Hungry Baby

2007-01-09T20:40:00.000-05:00

Monday Morning Musings: Ultimate Satisfaction

2007-01-08T06:00:00.000-05:00

A few months ago I listened to a sermon series on Ecclesiastes by pastor Allistair Begg, and even though many days have passed since I've completed it, one of the many powerful things he said that has stuck with me and become a daily meditation of mine is:

"Every pleasure in life ultimately mocks us unless we have found our need of eternal life met in the Lord Jesus, and satisfied by God; unless the thirst of our lives has been quenched by the living water which Christ alone provides."

The truth of the matter is that this life and world do contain some amazing blessings that are right for us to seek out and enjoy. However, as Begg mentioned, if Christ isn't the Lord of our lives, these blessings, meant to point us to God, will instead become idols and mock us. They will deceive us into believing that our hope and joy rests in their existence, so when these pleasures are removed, our hope is shattered.

Friends, may the true God of this world awaken you to the only lasting satisfaction made available through His Son Jesus Christ, that you may possess real and lasting joy, and be able to take delight in His many blessings.

Intense Conditioning

2007-01-06T12:06:00.000-05:00

Lizz has recently stepped-up the intensity of Colin's potty training by having him do "pee pee drills." This involves him acting as though he's playing when all of sudden he's "gotta go." He announces this by saying, "Mama, I have to go to the potty," and then runs to the bathroom. Below is a clip of Colin practicing:

Wake Up Call

2007-01-04T05:50:00.000-05:00

This morning I had the opportunity of having the trumpet of Spurgeon blown in my face, awakening my weary soul, and calling me to draw near to Christ. Below is an excerpt from this morning's Morning and Evening devotional.

"He who does not long to know more of Christ, knows nothing of Him yet. Whoever hath sipped this wine will thirst for more, for although Christ doth satisfy, yet it is such a satisfaction, that the appetite is not cloyed, but whetted. If you know the love of Jesus—as the hart panteth for the water-brooks, so will you pant after deeper draughts of His love. If you do not desire to know Him better, then you love Him not, for love always cries, "Nearer, nearer." Absence from Christ is hell; but the presence of Jesus is heaven. Rest not then content without an increasing acquaintance with Jesus. Seek to know more of Him in His divine nature, in His human relationship, in His finished work, in His death, in His resurrection, in His present glorious intercession, and in His future royal advent. Abide hard by the Cross, and search the mystery of His wounds. An increase of love to Jesus, and a more perfect apprehension of His love to us is one of the best tests of growth in grace."

May we all constantly seek to draw nearer to Christ, and know Him better.

The Wonders of Modern Technology

2007-01-03T06:24:00.000-05:00

Last night I had the honor of meeting the daughter of one of my good friends. Although I couldn't hold and kiss her, I was able to see her beautiful face and hear her precious baby coos through a web-cam, headset, and a web-site called Skype (http://www.skype.com/). Isabella was born on December 21, 2006 to her blessed parents, Jim and Jess, who have to be some of the most God fearing, faithful people I know. It was just a few months ago that Jim had returned from a deployment with the Marines, and then felt a calling to go into the the mission field. After much research and prayer, Jim and Jess hooked up with an organization called Corporacion Dios es Amor (CDA/"God is Love"). So, Jim having just returned from overseas, and Jess being about seven months pregnant, this faithful family answered the call to love the world, left their comfortable lives in Jacksonville, FL and moved to Bogota, Columbia. For the next few years, Jim and Jess will be serving in Tenjo, Columbia at an orphanage for girls with abused backgrounds. The faith that this family has been blessed with and exhibited, is truly awe inspiring. I am grateful to have friends like them and am excited about what God is doing in their lives. To learn more about their adventures (and to see more pictures of their gorgeous girl), please visit their blog: Through A Glass Darkly.

Anna's First Attempt With "Real Food"

2007-01-01T18:02:00.000-05:00

Masterpiece

2007-01-01T07:49:00.000-05:00

One of Colin's Christmas gifts this past year was an easel that holds a chalkboard on one side, a dry erase board on the opposite, and a paper roll between the two. Being the proud papa I am, I thought I'd unveil his first masterpiece. I cal it...Streaks and Blobs:

2006: A Very Blessed Year

2006-12-31T16:50:00.000-05:00

Among the many blessings my family and I experienced this year, the most precious was that of new life. In addition to welcoming our daughter, Anna Elizabeth, to this world, my wife and I had the privilege of celebrating a number of other births as well. Below are a few pictures of these priceless babes. May our Sovereign Father take these children for His own, filling them with the love of His Son, so that they may never know a day that they didn't know Christ as their savior.

Our Anna Elizabeth (8/06)

Cameron Sophia Grace: Born to friends Matt and Sarah 8/06)

Nathan David: Born to cousins Brenda and John (8/06)

Tristan: Born to friends Zach and Allison (10/06)

Isabella: Born to friends Jim and Jessie (12/06)

Gracious Savior, gentle Shepherd, Our little ones are dear to Thee; Gathered with Thine arms and carried In Thy bosom may they be Sweetly, gently, safely tended, From all want and danger free.

Tender Shepherd, never leave them, From Thy fold to go astray;By Thy look of love directed, May they walk the narrow way; Thus direct them, and protect them Lest they fall an easy prey.

Let Thy holy Word instruct them: Fill their minds with heav'nly light; Let Thy love and grace constrain them To approve what e'er is right, Take Thine easy yoke and wear it, And to prove Thy burden light.

Cleanse their hearts from sinful folly In the stream Thy love supplied; Mingled streams of blood and water Flowing from Thy wounded side: And to heav'nly pastures lead them, Where Thine own still waters glide.

(Words by Jane Leeson)

Merry Christmas to ALL

2006-12-21T08:05:00.000-05:00

To use one of my favorite movie quotes (paraphrased version), “The greatest trick the Devil ever played, was convincing the world that he doesn’t exist” (Usual Suspects). Well, if that was the greatest, somewhere near the top would be the redefining of the word "love." In our culture, "love" is often associated with "tolerance" (another term that is frequently misused). In other words, in order to express love we should accept others for who they are, and not try to change them. We should let people be who they will be with a disregard for right and wrong; after all "right and wrong" are relative to different people and situations. This definition may produce a great "curb appeal" and contain enough truth for many people to subscribe to it, however, if we were to investigate a little we would notice that not only is the foundation weak and rotten, but it's downright destructive. In reality, this definition promotes selfishness more than it does love. It allows us to proclaim peace and love as our excuse not to get involved, and as a result we exchange love for personal comfort. In fear of rejection and persecution of our beliefs we would rather let someone suffer, and we have the audacity to call that love!

What's really sad is it's not just the world who's subscribing to this heresy, but professing Christians as well. We have allowed the culture to define how we should live and let live, instead of the Holy Scriptures. Even worse, we've allowed the world's view of "love" to effect how we celebrate the love of God. So many people are quick to recognize the joy that this season brings, but refuse to recognize it's source, and to such a degree that even wishing someone a Merry Christmas is offensive. Instead we're suppose to say something generic like Happy Holidays lest anyone become upset. Isn't it amazing how powerful the name of Christ truly is? So powerful that it jars the nonbeliever's soul even when mentioned in a casual greeting.

After all that rambling, I get to my point. I would like take this opportunity to wish everyone a Merry Christmas. Whether you're Christian, Jewish, Muslim, or whatever else, I wish you a Merry Christmas. Whether the name of Christ comforts your soul or stirs up resentment, I wish you a merry Christmas. This is not in an attempt to be insensitive or intolerant, but sensitive to the truth that the only true joy that this season can bring is knowing the true love that was exhibited in a Father who was willing to send His only Son through Hell that sinners may be redeemed. May this Christmas be more that an opportunity to rest and be merry, but also to remember and be grateful. Grateful that the true God has and will fulfill all His promises.

Say hello to my little friend...

2006-12-20T06:39:00.000-05:00

I have a confession: I love toys. Although I hate to admit this, I have a childish obsession with gadgets and gizmos, trinkets and toys. I thought that when I "grew up" it would get better, but I think the opposite has occurred. Anyway, with that being said, I'd like to introduce you to my new desktop companion:

The John Calvin Bobble-head

The thing was, he was just floating out there in cyber-space looking for a new home. How could I not rescue him? The funny thing is, due to his beard being so long, his head doesn't bobble up and down. Instead he just shakes his head at me as if he's saying, "You are such a sucker." Oh well, I like him, and you can stop judging me now...you know you want one too.

Monday Morning Musings: Faith In Prayer

2006-12-18T05:19:00.000-05:00

Below is a quote from Thomas Watson, a seventeenth century Puritan, as it is written in his book, The Lord's Prayer. I hope you will find this good news as encouraging as I have:

"That we may exercise faith in prayer, let us consider that we do not pray alone. Christ prays our prayers over again. His prayer is the ground why our prayer is heard. He takes the dross out of our prayer, and presents nothing to his Father but pure gold. He mingles his sweet odours with the prayers of the saints. Rev 5.8. Think of the dignity of his person, he is God; and the sweetness of his relation, he is a Son. Oh, what encouragement is here, to pray in faith! Our prayers are put into the hand of a Mediator. Christ’s prayer is mighty and powerful."

What a beautiful picture of the Trinity we've been given in the transaction of our prayers, from our mouths to the ears of God:

-As we pray the Holy Spirit intercedes for us in our weakness ("Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. And he who searches heats knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God." Rom 8.26-27);

-Our prayers are then lifted up to the right hand of God where are surety stands, acting and serving as our mediator. What great comfort we can take in the knowing that are prayers are being requested by the very Son of God.

-Finally, we can take delight and be confident that the King of Kings and Lord of Lords hears the prayers of his children ("For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are open to their prayer." 1Peter 3.12).

Oh, what a God we serve!

The Big Interview

2006-12-17T08:31:00.000-05:00

In just a couple of hours I will be engaging in one of the most important interviews of my life: the interview for church membership. We've been attending North Cincinnati Community Church since mid July, and I'm excited about being received by them as a new member in the near future. I've attended the inquirer's class, completed the paperwork, and all that's left is meeting with an elder. In reality the "interview" is not as intense as it sounds. It basically involves an elder attempting to ensure that the prospective new member is a Christian, and understands the vows he or she will be taking:

1. Do you acknowledge yourself to be a sinner in the sight of God, justly deserving His displeasure and without hope except by His gracious mercy, and do you believe in the Lord Jesus Christ as the Son of God and the only Savior of sinners, receiving and depending upon Him alone for salvation as he is offered in the Gospel?

2. Do you resolve and promise in humble reliance upon the Holy Spirit that you will endeavor to live as a follower of Christ?

3. Do you submit yourself to the government and discipline of the church, promising both to further its purity and peace?

4. Do you promise to support and participate in the church's worship and work?

When I was younger I viewed church membership as a frivolous activity people engaged in so they could vote on issues such as which paper towel dispenser to install in the restrooms, and at what time the Christmas Eve service should be held. However, over the past few years I've come to realize how important church membership truly is. This realization was intensified about year ago when I was challenged with this statement: "There's no faith outside of church membership." Yikes! When I first heard this, red flags and sirens when up all over the place. Talk about a rash and extreme statement. However, as I chewed on it for a while I began to understand what the person was saying.

Though I don't believe you have to be a member of a church to be "saved," I do believe church membership is an important part of a Christian's faith. First of all, it serves as a public profession that Jesus Christ alone is the savior of sinners. In addition, it serves as an opportunity for a Christian to make a public commitment to fellow believers. It reflects an acknowledgement that the people of God are not loners, but belong to the body of Christ, and share in a unique and intimate fellowship with God and each other.

As a result of moving so frequently in the past few years, Lizz and I have discovered how critical it is to find a church home, and we are eager and delighted to embrace NCCC as our new church family.

Journaling Junior

2006-12-16T08:25:00.000-05:00

As our son, Colin, nears the age when he'll be starting preschool, Lizz and I have been doing a lot of thinking regarding educational methods. We've had many discussions between ourselves and others concerning the three main avenues we could take: public, private, or homeschooling. As a result, we (mainly my wife) have done a lot of research on the topic of homeschooling. Though we're not in a rush to make a decision yet, we've decided to "test the waters" by exploring some homeschooling methods with Colin. One idea Lizz discovered is journaling (it's actually closer to scribing, but still a lot of fun). The process is quite simple in theory: one of us sits down with Colin, "interviews" him regarding the events of his day, and then records them in his journal. It was our belief that for him to stay with this, we had to purchase a journal that would provide him with the critical inspiration every young writer needs. After much searching and evaluating the plethora of options, we decided on the following:

Being the proud papa I am, I would now like to share Colin's very first entry (don't worry, I've received the author's permission):

December 15, 2006
Today we went to the store. We saw toys like cars...racecars! We saw a baby. I saw miss Wanda. We bought a Christmas tree (Ha Ha). We got a pretzel. Yum, that was good. I want to have some more again. I tried new shoes at the store. They were too big. I saw a fly and a spider. Eww! It was creepy looking. I want to go to Wal-Mart Again.

Though it's still early, I find his style quite intriguing; sort of mix between Frost and Poe.

A Change of Scenery

2006-12-15T19:51:00.000-05:00

For those of you who know me, you know that I've changed my email address about a dozen times and my website at least twice. So, it was just a matter of time until I picked up and moved once again. I've decided to settle here at blogger because: 1.) I like their options more than those of Window's Live Spaces; and 2). I got tired of the ads. In addition, you may find my posts to be a little more "casual," with a mix of my "deep thoughts" and every day happenings. The main reason for the change in pace is that I'm determined to write more frequently, but unfortunately "deep thoughts" just don't come to me frequently enough. So, for those who have roughed it out thus far, thanks for your support. Your reward is minimal, but the good news is that you can still see pictures of my adorable kids at the old site (see "Pics" link on the side bar). I hope this post finds you well, and I look forward to your comments throughout my stay here.

P.S. The URL has stayed the same: www.justifiedsinner.com